The 7 habits of Highly effective techniques that can make you from Zero to some percentage of Hero in your Respective field .

Hey ! I am Lokhande Mahender and I am new to the blogging this is my first blogging on The 7 habits of Highly effective techniques that can make you from zero to some percentage of Hero in your Respective field 

if any mistakes if you going to find then suggest me  I am  student of B.tech Engineering, where in everyone in life they want to become hero in there respective field but due to some obstacles  and challenges and self destructions they can't become the hero in there respective field so i will point that all the mistakes that should overcome by the students to be success full in the respective  life with an holistic and enjoying the energetic and holistic life .

Habit 1 : #Be Proactive 

I said Be proactive but what is meant by being Proactive in life ?

Active means "doing something." The prefix pro- means "before." So if you are proactive, you are ready before something happens .That means you think before something happens you  won't take sudden  decision you will understand the situations of that present scene and you will be  able to control  a situation rather than just responding to it after it has happened. 

Example :

There  are two friends Mahender and Rocky . They had exams and they have given the Exams .After one week the results were announced and they got the paper also .Both of them got the Bad marks .Mahender got the 60 /100 marks  and Rocky got the 60 /100 marks  in there exam . 

Now after getting the results Mahender got frustrated due to the poor grades  and finding someone to blame for his poor grades and finally that someone is teacher .He started blaming the teacher 

On another side Rocky was sad with his marks and he have gone through his paper and find his mistakes in the paper  .Finally Rocky learnt from his mistakes .Mistakes are the biggest failures in our life which teach us the success lessons .So understand the mistakes then understand to solve the mistakes should not happen further .One who understand the mistakes they are making in life they can be most success full in  the life .

1. Predict :-

      Use your imagination to predict the future outcome of the situation and then behave according to that do you want to be proactive or reactive ?

"Search your own heart with all diligence for out of it flow the issue of life then you understand the real meaning of your own life and your all problems and you will find the solution in within yourself "

Habit 2 : #Begin with the End in the Mind

What is meant by Begin with the End in the Mind  ?

 

 "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny  matters compared  to what lies within us "

For example 

    In your mind's eye ,see yourself going to the funeral of a loved one .Picture yourself driving to the funeral  parlor ,parking the car and getting out .As you walk inside you observe the buildings ,soft organ music and .You see the faces of friends family you pass along the way .You feel the shared sorrow of losing ,the joy of having known ,that radiates from the hearts of the people there . 

As you walk down to the front of the room and look inside the casket ,you suddenly come face to face with yourself  .This is your funeral ,three years from today .Assume that all these people came here to honor you ,to express the feelings of love and appreciation for your life  .

Now think deeply 

What would you like each of these talk about you  and your life ?

What kind of husband ,wife, father mother would you like their words to reflect  ?What kind of son or daughter or cousin ?What kind of friend ?What kind of  working associate ?

What character would you like them to have seen in you ? What contributions ,what achievements  would you want  them to remember ? So look carefully at the people around you .What kind of the differences would you like to have made in there lives ?So before reading habit 3 sit down and take your journal write down about you and what changes you have to make in your life to get in with all the inward success in your life .

"Begin with the End in the mind " means to start with a clear understanding of your destination .It means to know where you are going so that you better understand where you are now and so that the steps you take are always in the right direction  .

A lot of youth are not having the proper END IN THE MIND .So the youth are wasting there not only valuable time on the earth but valuable seconds and precise time of there life on the earth by self destruction .

So you all will get the doubt  what is the self destructions and how we are self destructed  . So here  i will point some self destructed ways that you are destructed 

 1.

     A lot of the youth spent a lot of time in the social media platforms like whatsapp ,snapchats,instagram etc they are posting there photo in the Instagram and seeing again and again that how many of them  like my photo and how many  of them commented on my photo after every 5 minutes That means they are addicted to that and social media is not only wasting there time it leads to the destructions of our peace of mind if someone is commented abusively then we think about that if they commented good then we feel happy .Think are this happiness are life long ?Are they giving something to us ?So think about yourself and act upon that .

So if you like it my blog please share your views and comment in the comment section and i will post the remaining habit within a week 

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